Love and happiness cannot be forced. It’s something you have to earn. It takes patience and understanding of yourself and the other person.
When pushed to do things, we tend to fight more against it. Understanding of a person is sometimes hidden by our own shadow. Sometime the idea is overshadowed.
Some people make it out to be perfect, but it’s not. You have to make it perfect. But you need to sort yourself out before doing so. Clean up your room and things wil fall in place.
In the end you won’t be able to change other people, but you can change yourself. And just like that people can’t change you.
So don’t push and let it flow.